| Your Child and School Corporal Punishment |
Mary M. Alward | Jan 2007
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Your child comes home at the end of the school day with a huge bruise on his upper arm. When you ask him to explain how he got it, he tells you that his teacher squeezed his arm and shook him hard. He begins to cry. Though your child is usually truthful you wonder if he is telling a tall tale. You can’t believe your ears. Why would a teacher deliberately harm your child?
Schools and Corporal Punishment
Believe it or not, this is a daily scene across America. Twenty-three of states in the US still allow corporal punishment in schools, which is essentially putting a label of approval on child abuse. Don’t be too surprised if your child’s teacher practices corporal punishment, which includes grabbing, squeezing, shaking, spanking, wrapping knuckles with a pointer, forcing a child to stand for an excessive amount of time, not allowing bathroom breaks, lifting a child by the front of his clothing, washing a child’s mouth out with soap and any other harsh physical handling.
States That Allow Corporal Punishment
· Connecticut
· Alaska
· California
· Hawaii
· Iowa
· Illinois
· Massachusetts
· Maine
· Maryland
· Michigan
· Montana
· Minnesota
· Nevada
· Nebraska
· New York
· New Jersey
· New Hampshire
· North Dakota
· Oregon
· Rhode Island
· South Dakota
· Utah
· Virginia
· Vermont
· Washington D.C.
· Washington
· Wisconsin
· West Virginia
The states where corporal punishment has been banned do not allow any form of physical punishment. If you live in one of these states and your child is subjected to any form of physical punishment, take him out of school and report the abuse to the proper authorities. Once you have reported the incident, seek medical attention for your child and then contact a lawyer.
Protecting Your Child
If you live in a state that has banned corporal punishment, do not allow any incident to go unreported. If your state is one of those where corporal punishment is allowed, you are still able to protect your child. Here’s how:
· When your child is enrolled in school, request a written copy of the punishment policy for the district. Many school districts where corporal punishment is allowed forbid the practice. In this case, every school within that district cannot use any form of physical punishment.
· Ask for a written copy of the punishment policy at your child’s school. Thought the school district may allow corporal punishment, many principals forbid it to be used in their schools. Be sure to become familiar with the corporal punishment policy at your child’s school.
· Be sure to let your child’s school know your feelings on corporal punishment when you enroll your child. Though the school may allow it, they cannot administer any physical punishment if you object. If you do not wish your child to be physically punished, inform the school of your objection in writing. The letter you write should be placed in your child’s educational file by school administration. If the school refuses to accept your objection, ask your lawyer to draft a letter stating that your child cannot be physically punished by anyone at the school. Be sure that the school superintendent, the principal and your child’s teacher all receive a copy. Keep a copy for your own records as well.
Recourse if Your Child is Harmed
If your child comes home from school with bruises or welts that were caused by any form of corporal punishment, take the following steps:
· Remain calm.
· Tend to your child’s emotional and physical needs.
· Ask your child to describe the incident exactly as it happened and write it down in his words.
· Take a photograph of the injuries.
· Take your child to his doctor or to the emergency room immediately so the injury can be recorded by a health care professional. The report can be used to pursue legal action at a later date, if necessary. Be sure to obtain a copy for your own records.
· Make an appointment with the school superintendent and take a copy of the report to the meeting. Discuss the incident with the superintendent and insist your child have no contact with the abuser.
· If the school superintendent brushes your concerns aside or makes light of the matter, report the incident to the police and give them a copy of the medical report.
Follow the tips in this article to ensure your child has a positive school experience without fear of corporal punishment. It is every child’s right to live without fear of abuse.
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Anonymous |
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Peggy Dean |
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Thank you for covering this topic. It is important that parents know about this. However, your states listed as allowing corporal punishment are inaccurate. All of the states listed have actually BANNED corporal punishment.
Please see www.stophitting.com or www.nospank.net for factual data. I really appreciate the fact that you provided this article for parents. If you need any information I would be happen to help. I serve on the Board of Directors for Parents and Teachers Against Violence in Education, and our website is www.nospank.net
Sincerely.
Peggy Dean
North Carolina |
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Anonymous |
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This article is stating that all corporal punishment is abuse.
Children need to be disciplined. It states in the bible that "thou shall not spare the rod" and that they will not die from it (not sure of exact wording). This is why students go postal in the classrooms and hurt (or even kill) the teachers and other students... because kids are taught early on that they should not fear adults. A little bit of fear is good for kids. It keeps them on their toes. There is no reason that children should have power over adults. Philadelphia has one of the highest murder rates of the year (if not the highest) of major metropolitan cities. Many of them are teens doing the killings (Notice that Pennsylvania is not on the list of schools that allow corporal punishment). Some of the murders are of their own parents. Parents are not allowed to discipline their children, therefore the children are running amock. They have no respect for adults. Kids are cursing and disrespecting their parents, teachers and other adults, and the parents are not allowed to smack them in the mouth. Let's face it "no, don't do that" doesn't work if there is nothing to back it up. Much of it is the parents fault. Decades ago, it took a village to raise a child (if anyone in the neighborhood saw a child do something wrong, they were either able to yell at them, punish them someway or tell the parents). Now, parents are ready to beat people up and say "not my child". This is the undoing of our country. They even have all kinds of rights for criminals. People are going nuts, because they are not allowed to be punished for wrongdoing. |
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